Monday, 8 June 2009

To Samantha & Lisa

I'm so very sorry to hear of your sad losses, my heart goes out to you and your families. There is nothing I can say to ease the pain that you are going through at the moment, but, if it helps, just know that others are thinking of you and your loved ones.

Lisa, what you are feeling is absolutely normal- at this time there is no right or wrong anyway- just remember to breathe and try to go with each emotion as it hits you. You say that you are not grieving- you are- it is so evident in every word that you wrote. If it's ok, I'll contact you off group- I won't patronise you by saying that I know how you're feeling, but it's 4 weeks today since I lost my lover, partner and best friend- Bri, so I do share your feelings of loss, albeit in my way.

To everyone else- make the most of today

Huge hugs to you all, but especially to Lisa & Samantha

Maggy x

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4 comments:

  1. lisa wright8 June 2009 at 01:20

    Hi Maggy

    Thank you very much for your kind words. I was starting to feel like there was something wrong with me for now crying buckets all the time. Today is my dads funeral, i am saying a poem, i just hope i don't let my dad down.

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss as well. This world at times is such a cruel place. To take my dad, Samantha's dad and your partner in such a short space of time i so unfair.

    Love to you all

    Lisa XXX

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  2. Phil Thompson8 June 2009 at 06:21

    Sending you lots of hugs for today Lisa,I know your Dad will be very proud of you. xxx

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  3. George Hardy8 June 2009 at 06:27

    Dear Lisa, I'm certain you will let no one down today. Our hearts are with you.
    Maggy, yours was such a kind and very moving post, it can only have helped comfort Lisa and Samantha at this sad time. Coming so soon after your own great loss, it only goes to prove what a thoughful, kind and compassionate lady you truly are. I hope you stay with us folks here for many years to come.

    Loads of hugs to you all,

    George
    x

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  4. janet bailey10 June 2009 at 00:43

    Dear Lisa and Samantha I am so sorry to hear of your sad loss, my dad passed away 4 months ago I went back to Uk to see him unfortunatly he passed away two weeks after I got back to OZ,I cry over silly things that remind me of him,In a strange way I still think of him at home with mum I used to talk on the phone with him every week now I talk to the picture beside my chair, my heart goes out to you both at this sad time
    hugs janet x

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